Have you ever felt distressed while having sex with your partner? Did everything go wrong because you cannot understand what she wants? Or, maybe, you realize the chemistry went away when you got in bed? Do not worry; this might be a result of your mutual misunderstanding or irrelevant sex behavior. Our team and Brides Hub prepared a list of the most common sex mistakes! Although, as we are trying to be objective and our main goal is to improve your sex life, we respectively mention both opinions on problem – male and female.
Perform on-demand. And again – no! Let’s clarify this: your partner is not a robot, he or she has private feelings and states. Their mood can be not relevant for sex, and it has nothing to do with “a lowering heat” of your relationship. It is more common for women: they think that men are always ready to sleep with them. Clever girls know that a man is a living creature. As well, reviewing the experience of a mankind, women tend to be more complicated than men – including their sex-life. So try reacting modestly if she’s having another headache.
Wrong reciprocal expectations. Women often consider men to guess what they really want. It also works in bed. These suggestions may lead to anxiety and meaningless quarrels inside your relationship. How does it work in bed? In fact, your girl wears a resting bitch face after sex and does not avow what went wrong and why she is unsatisfied. Clever girls never do such things because they know: a dialogue is the main building material of your relationship. The same idea works here. On the other side, if you expect her to understand your speechless desired – be sure, you’ll be waiting forever. Do not be afraid initiating a small chat about your sex expectations; it is much simpler to fit them if you both know what your partner wants. Giving a small guidance is great for both women and men, and there is truly nothing to be ashamed of.
Rejecting new experiences. Works perfectly for both men and women. Trying out something new in bed is ALWAYS a good idea! Remember that and repeat it day by day like a mantra. You just need to sit down, have a cup of tea and discuss what kind of novelty would be appropriate for your sex life. Do not reject everything you hear, even if you feel tremendously conservative about sex. You never know what you can do till you try!
No seduction? This interrogation is miserable itself. So you like to lay down, silently do your thing, and fall asleep? Yeah, you sure know what “sex mistakes” are all about. Skipping the prelude can totally worsen your sex. Women need some time to run high. It also takes some time for men to get excited, but this period is quite shorter. Kissing, cuddling, holding hands, drinking wine, massage – just choose the one you like! Also, women do not like to be initiative, they often believe that it’s a job for men to be the originator of sex. No one knows where this miserable delusion comes from, but men sometimes want to be seduced.
