NL- Vicky is open, honest, funny and doesn’t hold back. This is a REALLY good interview. And I reformated it just for you old guys who couldn’t read the other ones, lol.
Interview by Cindi Loftus
Photos Courtesy of Vicky Vette
Vicky Vette started in porn at the age of 37 and has now been rocking the adult industry for six years. That old saying, "You get better with age" is a cliche, but in Vicky’s case it is TRUE! Vicky does hardcore scenes, and runs her own website along with six other sites. FreeOnes.com recently rewarded all Vicky’s hard work by giving her an 8.5 score on her site and saying "This busty blonde from Norway has became a huge name in mature hardcore porn thanks to her exceptional reality porn videos and outstanding photo shoots. Porn sites rarely get more enjoyable than this." Vicky also works diligently on her fan base, making personal connections with her fans. If you love mature hot blondes you should be a member of the one and only Vette Nation Army!
What jobs did you have before you got into the adult industry?
Ok starting at 18 – data entry, accounts payable, accounts receivable, accounts receivable supervisor, office manager, assistant controller, controller, general manager! All corporate – man the sexual tension in the office was unbearable! When I was single, I did fuck my employees, lol I’ve had emails from some of them since, congratulating me, telling me “good for you for following your heart and doing what you want to do”, and “You ended up right where you belong!”
Why and how did you get involved in the adult industry?
Since my teens, I always wanted to try modeling. I never had the time, money or confidence to try it. At 37 I took a sabbatical from building custom homes. (I had a construction company for years that had done very well). I bought a 40 foot travel trailer and it was my intention to just travel around and live a life of leisure for about a year. With this newfound time on my hands, I started thinking about the modeling thing again. I figured at my age, it was now or never, lol…. After all, I wasn’t getting any younger. I visited some agencies, and they all told me the same thing. You are too old, too short and too fat. What an insult! (I didn’t know you were supposed to lie about all those things, I told the truth!) Being the determined bull headed obstinate bugger that I am, I stuck out on my own, took pictures, got a profile on onemodelplace.com and before I knew it I was working steady. I was doing a lot of bikini and lingerie work and loving it. The problem was, the photographers kept telling me “put your top back on!” “I can’t use that!” “no pink!”, lol…. I couldn’t help it! I’ve been a nudist my whole life, I’m very comfortable nude, I actually hate bathing suits.
So one day just for fun, I sent in my photo to Hustler’s Beaver Hunt. You know the monthly contest with all those awful Polaroids? To my surprise I won the semi finals, they brought me to LA, gave me $1500 cash and I spent a few hours taking stills. I was in my element! I thought this is easy as pie! I never thought I’d win the contest, the other finalists were hot as hell. But I did, and got another trip, another photo-shoot and $5000! While I was there, a photographer asked me, “Can we shoot you for Busty Magazine while you are already here on our dime? That was another of Hustler’s publications at the time. I said Hell Yeah! I got the cover! Then the same photographer asked “Would you do a girl girl photo spread for High Society?” I was thrilled, I love girls! So I did my first layout with Avy Scott. And so it went…. It was just a natural progression. Hubby and I were swingers at the time so it was not much of a leap. It happened very quickly. I did 60 movies in the next few months.
Are you still a swinger?
Come over to my house and try me.
Don’t tempt me! You recently celebrated your 44th birthday. How did you celebrate?
I was at Erotica LA (our site was was nominated at the Fame Awards for “best website”) and ended up having dinner at Pacific Dining Car with some of my long time website members, Sunny Lane, Michelle Lay and Ron Jeremy who walked into the restaurant with a church group which was really interesting!
You look ten years younger than that. How do you stay in such good shape?
I run, run, and then run some more. Oh, and did I say I run? I love to run, I have a nice collection of little trophies from community 5K’s.
How do you stay so young looking?
My plastic surgeon gets monthly blow jobs. Seriously, thank you for the compliment! I love to rollerblade, bicycle and go to the gym. I absolutely love Body-pump! I’m hooked on it. If I miss it for a few days I get grumpy! I try to live very clean, I went to AA when I was 21 so I haven’t had a drink now in what 23 years? I quit smoking a year after that. I think smoking affects one’s skin. I do tan which I’m sure is bad, but I just love the sun. That’s why we are moving to Florida. I have more and more freckles every year. I’ll admit to smoking the occasional doob with a girlfriend but that’s the extent of it. My motto is “You don’t stop having fun because you get old, you get old because you stop having fun!” or “You can only be young once, but you can be immature forever!” lol…
How long have you been in the adult industry?
My first scene was May 31, 2003, so that makes it just over 6 years now. It was less than 2 weeks before my 38th birthday!
What are the best & worst things about the industry?
Best? No brainer! The sex…. really. I can get paid to have sex? Get paid to entertain people? What could be better than that? I used to work in an office! I sat in traffic wasting hours of my life every day! I love my flexible schedule and every day is different from the next. Going back to a 9 to 5 now would kill me! I’d rather die! I’d rather eat dirt off the sidewalk! Lol…. Not that anyone would hire me now…. Can you just see me as a bank teller? “you look kind of familiar, do I know you from somewhere?” lol…
The worst? The way the industry is slowly destroying itself by giving away so much free porn, taking away its value and otherwise creating an environment where it is tougher and tougher for talent to make a decent living. The industry is dog eat dog with little to no loyalty.
What advice would you give to an eighteen year old girl who wants to get into the porn biz?
Honestly? Don’t. Go to school and get a degree first and then……….. and only then, if you really want to do it, pick a good agent and do only those scenes that you really want to do. Never be pressured to do something you don’t want to do and don’t do something just for a paycheck. Actually that goes for everything in life, not just porn. If you ever do things “just for the money” you will be sorry. Porn stays with you forever…. don’t create a record for the rest of your life unless you are really committed to that lifestyle. It’s not as easy as you think. It’s a lot of hard work. You need a thick skin. It’s not as glamorous as you think. The money is not as good as it used to be, and with the biz going cheap, going gonzo, going amateur, going internet, the days of “PORNSTARS” are over. You will not be the next Jenna Jameson.
Is there a certain age that women should stop doing porn?
44? Ha ha. Nope. Stop doing it when you are thinking about how long the pot roast has been cooking instead of the scene you are shooting maybe?
If a fan can see only one of your scenes in a movie, which one should they watch and why?
Cum Drenched Tits #3, I was having a really good day! I even did the lighting guy! It’s a BJ, then anal, then little blowbang, then one final BJ. Lots of cum on my big tits! Some days I just feel like I can go on forever!
What is the weirdest place you ever had sex?
On the altar of a church. I convinced my boyfriend at the time to sneak in with me on a Saturday night. We drank all the wine that was intended for the communion at the service the next morning and fucked our brains out. Yes I saw Jesus that night.
What is the best sex you ever had?
Besides in the church? Lol… I just like having sex in unusual places, keeps it interesting. I love car sex, on the hood, the trunk, in the car… my corvette has seen a lot of action… I love outdoor sex, love exploring new places and the thrill of getting caught is exciting. Yesterday I gave Rokkerr a killer blowjob in the sauna with people just outside the door. The best sex is when you can trust the other person, you can let all your inhibitions go, always be open to new ideas.
You are now running a number of websites. How did you get started in that?
It got started with my own. I’ve been doing my own site with minimal help since 2004. When I first got into the business I tried 2 different webmasters and they were dismal failures. The first one, I waited months and months and months, and never got more than a “coming soon” page. The second one never ever did updates and the members complained. I was very upset and decided to take control and do it myself. I learned by trial and error – mostly error! Lol… I had no formal training but after the site started doing well I figured I should go and learn more. I went to school for computer graphics, design and back end stuff. Yes…………. I like html! I’m a total geek! I figured that if I was going to continue in the business, we had to expand so I did by signing more girls and creating a bona-fide network. I really thought there was a void in the industry…. a girl pornstar running and helping other girls. I may not know everything but the girls know they can trust me and that I will do my best to help them.
How did you learn to do it?
Trying different things and seeing what works. You really know if you are doing the right thing or not by the amount of people who actually think your site is worth paying for, lol… Then whether or not they stay is a great indicator – our retention rate is high.
Can you list the sites please-
http://www.vickyathome.com– If you join Vickys site, you get all the other’s for free!
http://www.michellelayathome.com
http://www.britneyathome.com
http://www.rebeccajessopxxx.com
http://www.sashasparks.com
http://www.filthycuteonline.com
http://www.sunnylanelive.com
There are two more on the way as we speak but that is kind of confidential at this point.
What would a fan see if he joined your network of sites?
Well the obvious answer is he/she gets all of the sites for one membership. But in our case I think a fan gets a real community. Every site is joined by the communal board and there are member only activities and cam2cam events where fans really can interact and get to know the girls. The members can get on cam as well if they dare! Sometimes we reverse roles and the members do a show for us. We have some regulars that you can count on to do a dance and a solo show for us! We also have female members who are bi or bi curious. Sometimes the members forget about me and get off on each other! Which I absolutely do not mind! We have private chatrooms which really are private, not even me, the webmaster, can read the chat, ever! So we have some really perverted dirty male and female members who are known to have cyber sex with each other!
So of course there is tons of porn: camshows, picture sets, archives, streaming videos,all the typical stuff…. but the great thing about our network is, there is something to do every day – with so many sites there are one or two updates every day, one of us is doing a cam2cam or a camshow every day, one of us is always on the board to chat to online. Mondays we have a group chat. The girls treat the members of the other sites as members of their own.
What is your unfulfilled fantasy?
I want to compete with Brazzers and Naughty America…. really. I think online porn is stagnant and want to shake it up with my own brand of reality adult.
What is your favorite kind of scene to do?
Off the cuff and live – completely unscripted and unrehearsed. I love being live in front of thousands of people…. I feed off of their excitement and their requests. I love thinking about all those hard-ons and all those guys stroking to me! It makes me cum really intensely, and when I get started sometimes I can’t stop. No turning off the cameras to get the right angle when things are live, it’s all real.
Do you watch your own movies?
Nope… not unless I have to edit something.
What is a typical day in your life like?
Now that we are in Florida, I have to get up by 7 to run. Otherwise it’s too ridiculously hot and humid. I consume mass quantities of coffee, eat my daily bowl of raisin bran, and hit the computer, every day one or two of the sites get updated, I post on the board, do a blabchat, read “LUKEISBACK”, check myspace, my yahoo group, twitter, facebook, touch base with Sunny and Britney and the other girls, do a cam2cam or a themed camshow, shoot content, go through pics, or video, choose music, I could work 20 hours a day and never be done.
What is the worst thing you have lived through?
Being on the receiving end of a mentally and physically abusive relationship.
How did you get through it?
Being kind and trusting and loving and understanding did not work. I finally had to put my foot down and be strong enough to end it.
What would you different looking back?
I should have ended it much sooner. But who knows, they say everything happens for a reason. My collection of experiences have made me the person I am today.
Do you have a philosophy on life?
Never put off till tomorrow what you can do today. Tomorrow never comes. Like Nike says “Just do it!” or “Just do me!” lol… If you want to change careers, do it! If you want to go on that special vacation just do it! If you wait till you can afford it – it will never happen. Something will always get in the way. If you wait till you have money, or wait till you have time, or wait till the kids are gone, or if only just this, or if only just that…. Just do it! You could get hit by a truck tomorrow! You could get cancer and you will never be the same! Do it now. Wear your Sunday best on a Tuesday. Drive it like you stole it – Dance like no one is watching.
What does the perfect dick look like?
Six or seven inches or so? Not too big that its uncomfortable, but enough to know it is there. A nice head at the top to stimulate the g-spot just right! I don’t think cut or uncut makes a difference.
Do you want to have children? why or why not?
I did want children very badly. I feel that I was robbed. But I felt it would be irresponsible on my part to bring children into a volatile relationship, so I made sure I never got pregnant. Now I fear I am beyond that at 44, if I started now, I would not be the best possible mom. At 60 it would be hard for me to relate to and control a 16 year old girl or boy. God I know what I was like at 16! I was a hellion!
Where do you see yourself in ten years?
Answering an interview from Cindi Loftus saying "When are you going to quit?"
What would you change about the porn industry?
You should have put this question earlier. There are so many things. The industry is destroying itself. Between free porn and corporate porn like Brazzers, smaller websites are becoming a thing of the past. So many solo girls have just given up on their sites. Solo girls are just not able to survive in this business. If they do survive they are treated like whores, not like stars…. overshot, over saturated and overexposed. The big time movies are gone and the consumer has nothing much to look forward to . The days of the big budget adult movie are really going by the wayside. Some movie companies won’t even do makeup or hair anymore, which makes a huge difference in the end result. I really think girls are treated poorly and underpaid.
How do you feel about the disease testing in the industry?
Testing should be every 2 weeks not every 30 days. HIV has a 2 week incubation period so it just makes more sense. Then everyone would be safe or safer. Having said that, the recent ruckus is absurd. AIM (Adult Industry Medical) did an excellent job of identifying and quarantining and protecting everyone.
Do you worry about HIV?
I have not had a single STD since I shoot only for my site. My only male talent is Rokkerr my hubby. Given what we do, it’s always in the back of my mind, but I feel fairly safe shooting with women.
Do you think requiring the use of condoms in all adult scenes is a good or bad idea?
Awful, One, people hate looking at it.
Two, people hate using them. I personally hate them and find them uncomfortable, especially in an anal scene. We fuck much longer and harder than a normal person and the rubber will chafe.
Three, it does not sell as well.
Four, no one should be able to force another human being to put on a condom if they don’t want to – isn’t that called freedom of speech and expression?
Those are pretty darn good reasons!
Favorites
Junk food Ice cream omg Ben & Jerry’s
Drink Coffee coffee coffeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
Fast Food None
Music Group Abba
TV Show NIp Tuck
Movies Anything that is on late at night – often I’m an insomniac
Book the dreamweaver bible
Song Pour some sugar on me Def Lepperd
Perfume anything by Calvin Klein
Foreign City Milan, Paris, Copenhagen, Oslo
Day of the week Saturdays because I sometimes go dancing
Time of year – fall (leaves are so beautiful)
US City – Sarasota (I am here right now)
Video Game – Pacman (I am old enough to remember it)
Thing to Learn – Back end programming (it is fascinating), more languages! I speak some Norwegian and some French, love Spanish!
NL-Vicky will be at AdultCon next weekend. She will have a few copies of this magazine and interview. Maybe if you ask really nice ( and slip her a $20? lol) she will sign one for you.