Jayden James with Shelley Lubben on MTV
Jayden Jaymes writes on Brazzers Forum via ContactPornStars.com
I love when y’all THINK you know me.
I tried to ignore it, but I’ve gotta put it out there.
You’re right… I do what I can to please the fans and they’re usually happy. The only time I ‘piss them off’ is when they disrespect me. I put them in their place when needed. Regardless of a person’s job, they deserve respect.
As far as pissing off ‘co-stars, directors and producers’… Ha! I’m always nice to people on set. And, if I don’t know people, I usually keep quiet. Co-stars end up hating me because I say what others think: she gave a bad performance, her hygiene is horrible, etc. I’ve never been a bitch just to be a bitch. Yes, it’s in my blood, but I give everyone a chance!
As for directors and producers… funny, cuz most of my friends in this biz are directors and producers. The ones that hate me are the ones that have tried to push me around (like they do the other girls) and (unlike the other girls) I stand up for myself. If the guy’s being a jackass, I tell him to fuck off. Bitchy? Maybe. But, once again, it’s about respect.
I am not leaving because I didn’t get the AVN (award). If that were the case, do you think I would’ve left WHEN I didn’t get it? I want to retire from performing because I’ve been around for 2 1/2 years and I’m tired!
I actually have plans beyond fucking and I’m working really hard on these projects. Plus, (my number one reason) most of the girls (I’d say 90%) are escorts. They’re worse than the guys. They’re just dirty. Girls are doing guys outside the biz that aren’t tested, without condoms, because they were offered a couple hundred bucks, and that spread diseases! I don’t want to put myself in that position anymore. This industry is a bunch of fucking hookers trying to legitimize themselves by doing it on camera. (Now THAT would qualify as ‘pissing off co-stars.)
So, what about those like me? I don’t escort. I don’t blow directors/producers. I actually want to take advantage of the business aspect of the industry and make some real money! Is it ‘bitchy’ of me to push myself to succeed and not let any of the assholes stand in my way? Maybe. But a good business woman is always considered a bitch. If that’s the reputation I get for standing up for myself and not being a whore, so be it.
And for those who want to go the whole "You fuck on camera for money, you ARE a whore’ route… Really?! Ever hear of a JOB? I show up, turn into a nympho for the camera, and go home. If you ever met me outside of a set, I’m in sweats with no makeup on. I don’t flaunt what I do. I have a good time, but it’s not about sex for me. I don’t drop my panties for anyone.
I’ve been dating a guy for three weeks and still haven’t slept with him! What I do is a job, and it’s just that. I treat it as a job and not a party, like most. I make my money and get out. I’m not at lame porn parties, getting drunk, doing blow, hooking up in the bathroom and getting caught up in the drama like the rest. Bitchy?
And the whole Rachel (Starr) thing. I’ll admit, I take it kinda far, but I really don’t like her. I’m not trying to hurt her career or mine or anything. I actually used to like her. She started dating my ex, we did a scene together, and she was nice. I was actually happy he was in good hands.
But, when I hear that they split and she’s now escorting… Really?! You move in on my life and my man and take everything from me, and it turns out that you’re just another hooker?! THAT pisses me off. Yes, he’s at fault, too. I know. I don’t want him back. But I just don’t like hookers. (Once again, the number one reason I’m through with performing.)
Call me a fucking cunt, I really don’t care. Just know exactly what you’re referring to.
(NL-Just a couple days ago we see Jayden posing with Shelley Lubben in a story I did about the Pink Cross saving more girls from porn, pic above)
“But a good business woman is always considered a bitch. If that’s the reputation I get for standing up for myself and not being a whore, so be it.”
“I’ve been dating a guy for three weeks and still haven’t slept with him! What I do is a job, and it’s just that. I treat it as a job and not a party, like most. I make my money and get out. I’m not at lame porn parties, getting drunk, doing blow, hooking up in the bathroom and getting caught up in the drama like the rest. Bitchy?”
Jayden, you are a whore, even if you like it or not. You just seem to be more profesional and delutional that the rest of your fellow whores.
Another useless whore who suffers from mental delusion and dementia. She thinks she can sock cock for money, then go take a shower, stand in front of mirror and tells herself: I’m not a whore, I’m a business woman; and everything would be fine.
Well, I’ve got news for you honey: it doesn’t work that way. As long as you make a living by getting your holes screwed in front of camera, as long as people log into VOD web sites to jerk off to you for 8 cents a minute, and as long as you need to write a blog to explain you’re not a whore, you are indeed a fucking whore. Not a very good one though, but that’s just what you are. Take it, leave it or shove it up your ass.
If anyone calls me a whore I’ll run them over with my Corvette.
This is the result of Shelley Lubben’s influence.
Look anyone who fucks for money is a whore. If you say you’re not a whore and you fuck for money then you r a lying whore. The fact is about 98 percent of the women who fuck on camera can be had by had by the average Joe for a few hundred bucks regardless of what the escort sites show. The ones who don’t escort r either very new to the business or married to their on screen partner. Remember the old saying “Whores lie” that includes Jayden who as they say in the ghetto is frontin for the MTV camera cuz she escorts too. Surprised no ones called her out for lying.
These days anyone that works for a living is whoring themselves out. If you didn’t you wouldn’t have a job. We all have to do things for money we would rather not do. Having sex for money is different then selling bug spray for a pay check at Walmart? I think I would rather have sex.
“Having sex for money is different then selling bug spray for a pay check at Walmart?”
A little bit honey, a little bit different.
“Whore” is such a subjective term. It seems to have a different meaning to everyone on the planet. Someone who waits until marriage to have sex might call me a whore for losing my virginity after high school graduation and then breaking up with the guy six months later. It seems to me that regardless of what you are in life, everyone puts down the people directly below them. A church-going mother thinks a girl who’s had two or three sex partners is a whore. That girl might think a playboy model is a whore. She might think a porn star is a whore. And a porn star might think a high-priced escort is a whore, who thinks she’s not a whore because she’s not on the street sucking dick for crack.
It’s all so relative. I don’t even bother arguing about it with people anymore. But I do think that if you make the decision to go into the porn industry, you have to be prepared to be called a whore by people who disagree with your definition of the word, and to a certain degree, you have to be okay with it.
Alicia, a whore pretty much always means someone who has sex for money. Notice when people do things for money or for personal gain they call it whoring themselves out, but not slutting themselves out.
Biatch, not everyone that works for Walmart sells bug spray, ask the Walton family, the richest family on Earth. I’d rather be them than have sex for money.
Thanks AL for not letting that BS about everyone who works is a whore or that being a whore is relative go unchecked. That’s the same type of crap pimps tell their teenage girls before they drop them off at the track or some johns hotel room.
“That’s the same type of crap pimps tell their teenage girls before they drop them off at the track or some johns hotel room.”
True, kudos to Al and his BS detector. Its fucking strangers for money, strangers a whore might even consider unatractive or even repulsive in private, but she has do do it becasue its her job. That is what whores do.
And Pimptalk means “civilian job= Whore”. By that way of thinking, only subhuman and often predatorial parasites like pimps are not whores.
thanks guys… one more thing, I collect unemployment which is my “work” I’m not a whore, I’m a pimp, BIIIIAAAATTTCCCCCCHHHH
I’m off to Cali for Coachella, take it easy