1. That she was married.
2. That she was a meth addict
3. That she has kids.
Shelley is doing a chat on Sunday night-
Please join Shelley and her husband Garrett in the Chat rooms this Sunday night, November 9 at 6 pm PST to talk about Marriage, sex, pornography and more… We want to share some of our pearls with you and inspire you to have an amazing and healthy marriage.
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Garrett and I have been through a lot in our marriage from him marrying a porn star and helping her recover, Shelley overcoming cancer, overcoming meth addiction, raising three children and now running a non-profit organization reaching out to porn stars. Oh yeah, we’ve been through a lot and God has taught us strength, endurance and the true meaning of "love".
We invite all married couples to join us or anyone over the age of 18 preparing for marriage.
She is still a hooker. She is simply pandering to pornstars to satisfy her own insecurity.
Out of all the people in the world that need help pornstars rank last.
I dont know how many pornstars I know that have flaked on well paying shoots because they over slept or were too drunk or because their boyfriend couldnt stand the idea of some black guy with a giant cock hitting the bottom of his girlfriends shallow pussy.
Pornstars need to learn to be professional not to get some ex-meth head to tell them to work even less.
“Garrett and I have been through a lot in our marriage from him marrying a porn star and helping her recover, Shelley overcoming cancer, overcoming meth addiction, raising three children and now running a non-profit organization reaching out to porn stars. Oh yeah, we’ve been through a lot and God has taught us strength, endurance and the true meaning of “love”.”
That’s so sweet, Shelley. I think I’m gonna wipe a tear from my eye.
And next time, try not to attend porn star karaoke if you’re against the industry.
Of course I will go to porn star Karaoke, porn conventions, porn parties wherever the porn stars are. I am not against porn stars but against the porn industry because of the way the industry treats porn stars.
I have stated this over and over so I hope this time we are clear.
Love you guys!
Fuck you Lubben, you’re the blight of the porn industry, a parasite feeding off the humanity’s dumpster. Porn whores have the dignity to fuck for the money, while you on the other hand, beg for it like a leper dog. Of course you go to porn star karaoke, where else you can get free booze and food? You sure are stupid, but I don’t think even you believe you can touch a whore’s heart and convert her in the middle of a party, when she’s drunk and wasted out of her ass. This is low, even for someone of your standards.
“A former stripper, prostitute and pornographic actress in the 80’s and 90’s, Shelley suffered major negative effects of the pornography industry and was diagnosed with Bipolar disorder, Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, Depressive Disorder, Impulse Control Disorder and substance abuse due to years of trauma from the sex industry. In 1994, she was infected with the non-curable disease Genital Herpes while making a pornographic film and later developed early cervical cancer. Shelley had three unexpected pregnancies from prostitution acts, two ending in miscarriages. Later, with her husband, she had an Entopic pregnancy and a third miscarriage. FOUR total pregnancy losses. Shelley understands very well how destructive the pornography industry is. ”
Percentage of this that is anybody’s fault but hers? Zero.
eisforeric Says:
Percentage of this that is anybody’s fault but hers? Zero.
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You don’t think there are people to blame before she got into porn that lead her into that life? Yeah no one put a gun to her head like Linda Lovelace has claimed. But she wasn’t one of the girls who came in saying this is what I want to do with my life and I want to be a star and here is my plan.
Organizations like Shelley’s who raise money to help the performers is looked down from people in the outside world. To the outside world, they don’t care about anyone in the sex industry or the pornographers or anyone on the fringes of the adult industry. She has never said she hates the performers. She’s against the people who run the industry and how badly they have treated the performers.
I despise the people who run the industry because of all the horror stories I’ve heard and read about how badly the girls are treated. Many girls would stay in porn if they weren’t so badly abused and literally run out of the industry. I don’t see any of you trying to help the people who want and need the help. Shelley helps but you still criticize her. Shelley is not former porn girl Pastor Melissa Scott who looks down on the industry and everyone in it. I will never understand how porn fans can hate someone who helps the performers who want the help.
I do not think Shelley hates the people in the industry, she seen to hate the fact that for most people getting into the sex industry is a self- destructive move. I guess even the Coronel would agree in that.
The problem with Shelley is that she does not seem to have a clear focus on were to take the political ramifications of her ministry. And that is not a unique problem of her. The Sex Industry Survivor Movement of with Shelley is part is divided over what to do with the industry over all. Legalize and regulate, ban and censor in the old puritan way, or abolish in the Swedish model. Many prominent, feminist intellectuals, ministers or secular activists seem very divided on what to do.
Shelley does not to seen to have a clear answer too. Sometimes she sounds like favoring regulation that means of course recognizing the industry as legitimate but needing some gov intervention to prevent negative externalities and sometimes Shelley seens to be in a all out crusade to destroy the industry.
In my opinion what she is doing does weaken what she is trying to do because it creates a antagonical relationship with the industry and makes access to the women she wants to help more difficult.
She does need a politica stance if asked by outsiders and journalists but political activism on porn should be lef to someone else unless the welfare of performers is at risk. No porn taxes Shelley. But OSHA maybe needs you.
Shelley does not need to be a apologist for the industry, the industry have enough of them. Or a cruzader, her fellow evangelicals have a lot of them.
She needs to focus on what she does better, the performers that need help in getting out.
And to her credit she is one of the few persons that has the balls to call on the Earl of Pimpwich abuses when most porners just talk of them in private and under fake names.
The cruzading should not get in the way of the healing.
I do support better treatment of porn stars. But, the term “Porn Star” is a term of endearment, there really isn’t much “Star” to them at all anymore.
“But she wasn’t one of the girls who came in saying this is what I want to do with my life and I want to be a star and here is my plan.”
That is beyond the point. The point is that everybody has free will, and it was ultimately her decision. If she wanted money that badly, she could have done nude modeling without doing hardcore porn. It’s understandable that a troubled woman would end up in porn, but if you’re gonna play the sympathy card, you better damn well have a good story other than doing porn.
And no, I don’t think Shelley’s just trying to help. If she did, she wouldn’t start a website exalting herself because she KNOWS the industry inside and out. Um, she made about ten movies, so that doesn’t exactly mean she’s a qualified authority. And the reason I don’t do anything for porn girls is because I have other things to worry about in my life than whether or not a porn star’s fucking having a bad day like the rest of us.
eisforeric Says:
The point is that everybody has free will, and it was ultimately her decision.
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I know. But you can’t just blame the person who got into porn. There are other people to blame before it happened. There are people who do well in porn like a Nina Hartley. While others do very badly and should never have gotten into porn.
Traci Lords said no one ever put a gun to her head. Though Jim South says her stepfather brought her into his studio when she was 14. She also says she needed the money and hated being poor. So she got into porn because she needed the money. But there were people to blame for her being there. You can’t just blame that one person. If something goes horribly wrong, there’s enough blame to go around.
Again, ultimately it is one’s decision. There are alternatives to porn. Yes, you don’t get as much money working at Wal-mart, but it is STILL your decision to get into porn.
“I don’t think Shelley’s just trying to help. If she did, she wouldn’t start a website exalting herself because she KNOWS the industry inside and out.”
While calling herself a porn star is inacurate and exagerated, she was just a porn chick with only 12 in her IADFB entry, she is in constant communications with a surprisingly large number of performers, I guess she does know the industry well. But sometimes she is too hard of self promotion and that is a legitimate critic.
About the girls, sorry friends, while I believe in free will and personal responsability, I also know that mentall illness can hamper that free will and good judement. And many of the women in the sex industry are if fact mentally ill. And they will not get any better in the industry.
Mentall illness can destroy the hability of keeping and holding a civilian job, also makes the women more vulnerable to substance abuse issues and can make the decision of selling their bodies in front of a camera far easier even if they hate themselves for doing so.
So if you are going to rest all the responsability on the girls, well the pornographers that knowingly hire a mentally ill girl are resposible too.
In some European countries with legal prostitution is now a crime to purchase sexual favors from a drug addicted woman. Becasue addiction is more and more a disease as science is proving. And that disease damages free will.
I’m in favor of regulating and licensing questionable activists such as Shelly Lubben. With 10 Million Americans out of work, an economy that is wrecked and Wall Street titans clamoring to save their multimillion dollar bonus Shelly is still playing her same old song.
Its a tired song.
Why dont you ask XXXChurch where Trinity is at? She is at a ranch selling pussy.
Do you know why? Because she is lazy and uneducated and working at Walmart for $5 an hour she her cup of tea.
I think Shelly is simply a raincoater. This is her way of being around the porn lifestyle without being perceived as a porn girl herself. She seems obsessed with porn girls. Maybe she needs to seek treatment for her obsession.
Hey guys, I appreciate all of your comments so much and it helps me to understand that I need to better state my intentions and explain “why I do what I do”. I actually am in favor of regulation and licensing porn performers in order to protect them from sexually transmitted diseases and other health issues. I would sooner choose to be a humanitarian than an activist. I would rather protect lives and demonstrate love to them than condemn them off to hell and see them suffer later in life. So, being so inspired by all of you look for my blog this week on my web site at http://www.shelleylubben.com/index.php?truth=blog.
I love you dearly and am appreciative you took the time to comment.
PS: I did more than 12 movies. I did about 25. I definitely did hardcore porn to include gangbangs, DP, girl girl, interracial, facial jobs, anal and even did it on the American Flag. Not proud of it at all but I want you to know I definitely earned my “stripes”. No pun intended.
Shelley’s oldest daughter is the product of one of her johns, which is something she talks openly about, probably much to the despair of this particular child who is high school age. This is really something she should keep private, but I assume she parades the fact in order to get more attention (and moreover, money $$$) from donors.
I love you BDD and believe you are made for greater things than porn. That’s the only song I have for you.
Love you dearly,
Shelley
You sick fucks for slamming a female who has something honest to say about her industry. I can relate to what Shelly is saying, because I’ve also seen tryant bosses and tyrant co-workers in my industry, and the tyrants in my industry were like the ones that sounded like the above negative guys here – mere bullies (i call them cowards) trying to discredit the truth tellers. You bastards hire women you know are meth addicts. What? No drug testing? What about you fuckers hiring high school drop outs? This shouldn’t change either, huh? You sick fucks that want to keep things the way they are, it will not come to be like you want….this is a fact that i know. Change will come swiftly.
I’d like to raise $ to find out where the above fuckers have their IP address registered at. It costs $49.99 if anyone wants to pitch in with me.
You know stating your opinion is one thing, but trying to make someone feel bad is plain WRONG. Your bad intentions are too evident to ignore. You could have said things differently, you sick and fat fucks.
You are a fucking idiot. Sounds like you are a broke idiot as well.
You want an IP address? Mine is 76.173.49.111
You want to know who owns it? Road Runner.
You want to doublecheck?
Run it thru http://www.arin.net
So what? Lets see what you are about you pathetic fucking loser. If you are not at my house in the next 24 hours you are as worthless as that lazy whore Shelly.
I just saved you $50 that you didnt have. Come on and lets see what you can do with this information you stupid cunt.
wow what did I miss, who is this new fuckhead?
Oh mr roadrunner, sire. I didn’t know it was you, sir.my apologies. [as I bow to you like King Louis XVI]. thanks for providing me with your address (off of XXXXXXXXXX {removed by NL, stop posting this shit, or I will delete you , you are interupting Dancing with the Stars!} XXXXright?).Or is it the other address you gave me previously via telephone…oooopppsss..u didn’t call me, did u……yikes..ooopps…almost slipped.****. Anyways, U are a pig!!!!!. Pigs are my favorite breakfast animal. I love bacon. hmmmmm. 24 hrs? I would like respectfully request 365 days, if that wouldn’t upset you 2 much. Long live England, you piece of toast. Me and my friends who love a good challenge salute you who are about to……
oh ffs, posting kayden krook’s name when it was going public domain is one thing, but putting up addresses is another thing entirely. I arrived to see that, who knows who else did.
ban this cunt now.
Broke? No. Friends…yes. Nerd computer geek friends, even more. My best friend (a really shy computer techie) put together a list of all abusive pornographers home and work addresses. it’s not all inclusive. hey anyone want to know where Max lives? lol anyhow he’s a real sick fuck like you, if you ask me. But he enjoys watching producers like you suck ass, take 3 dicks it in the ass, swallow cum loads, as well as smell feet. Excuse me, I have a call coming in. Oh, he said, 200 yards? Does that sound about right? That was my “psycho off-duty rambo commando protector our Constition” friend. IF you ask me, those rambo commando type video games should be outlawed. My friend can’t seem to realize when he’s playing a game or whether it’s just reality. Oh, he also just said he was on the roof. I think it was mine though…lol I better go look.
Ban me? What about banning hiring high school drop outs? What about banning hiring drug addicts? what about banning your scripts? why don’t we hire more jewish women? or are you afraid to do this? how about some more crack whores? U guys are all fags. Mindy Lee playing the piano was the 2nd porn that made me see the light…
Come on you guy, you have some points (I against the hiring of drug addicts and mentally ill women for sex work too) and I want to see more african american contract girls (yes we can!) but your behavorios ruins it. So stop snorting coke while posting please.
Addictive personalities just change drugs. God arrives in desperate times in desperate minds. Ride that high. But what are the ingredients of the drug?
ComeOn.. please don’t bow down to their level, it only gets then excited. Don’t get caught up in name calling with these guys, and girls. Use your argument instead of 4 letter words and call outs! Trust me it makes better arguments with them. Sometimes they will say something that is enlightening!
…I’m gonna sell Rubber Dicks and Butt Plugs, if it’s the last thing I do.
Karyn,
That’s how we have to speak to people who don’t understand nor have the communication skills of an ape. If I was in Israel, I would speak Hebrew to the good jews, but unfortunately to the sick jews (like most of the guys above), you’d have to speak the sick ones language, cuz they’re animals. Look at how they’ve abandoned Emily Evermoore at her time of need? By kicking her while she’s down? hmmmmm very noble of them. Not.
What “enlightening” do they have to say about contributing to the decline of Western Civilization, about their poisoning of the American mind, about their feeble attempts at discrediting truth tellers? About what about what they’ve done to my friends? I believe in legal terms, one could argue that “agravating an existing condition” is a tort.
Anyhoot, you are acting like a site moderator, shame on you! Shame! Shame! Shame!
No thanks ComeOn, not from you, at least. But thanks for caring.
Welcome to the jungle, gentlemen.
Where nothing is banned!
Just as you have not banned anything, not even ass sucking, you queers? Nor drug testing, you apes, you cave dwellers!
I’d like to raise $ to find out where the above fuckers have their IP address registered at. It costs $49.99 if anyone wants to pitch in with me.
You know stating your opinion is one thing, but using homophobic slurs as “queers” is downright unjustifiable. Your bad intentions are too evident to ignore. You could have said things differently, you sick and fat fucks.
ComeOn…you and the Colonel sing the same song.
The decline the the Western Civilization?? You can lay a lot at the door step of the porn industry, but we all own the blame to our own decline.
Also you need to google aggravating an existing condition or talk to a lawyer. No judge would rule in that favor.
I get that this is important to you because your friend is hurt and in pain, but I’ve been working with “broken” women for years and no one gets better until they take responsibility for their own actions.
You have also found support on this site for her. Use it as a staring point to help her. Arguing with these “monkeys”, although fun, is not going to help your friend.
4EyesEric,
I could care less if anyone knew where I lived, so take your threats elsewhere. Why don’t you guys just call a truce and send me a few hookers instead. But help Emily, please, and the other 10 chicks I mentioned also, and I’ll call off the troops…
ComeOnYouGuys, I wrote a poem for you:
Roses are red
The sky is blue
I want to throat fuck you
Bring me your mother and sister(s)
Stupid Emily is rotting in prosin
I’ll have more beers
I don’t care about stupid whores
I just use them to pleasure my stiff cock
To make money off of them and throw them to dumpster
Another day, another ass whore
Dance my monkey
My beer is getting warm
Colonel…I do not want to split hairs, but I believe that qualifies as a limerick!
You made me laugh again!
Colonel, Sir. I sure had you upset, yesterday? What happened. You sounded like you were coming down off something…jeeeeeesh You poor baby. Maybe I should start a collection for you. For your next porn starring you taking it in the ass by a 500 lb guerilla. I heard you had nightmares about that constantly.
Kay my dear, I’m glad you liked my piece. You can call it whatever you want.
Monkey, monkey, monkey, you gotta try HARD-ER to impress me. But hey, look at the bright side, maybe after all is said and done, we become friends and I invite you over to a porn set so you can watch your favorite whore getting hammered live in front of you. Just promise you won’t go crazy and try not to hurt anybody.
Blow jobs: 50$
Piss drinking: $100
Ass fucking: $250
A dancing monkey that provides free entertainment: priceless
Colonel stop poking the bear.
Also I though you didn’t like the ass f***ing thing? why would you pay $250 to shoot it?
Kay, what’s wrong with you? Why in the world you thought I don’t like the ass fucking thing? I love ass, girly ass, that is, nice, soft, round girly ass, good for my cock, and good for the business. I don’t like fat, donut eating ass, and I don’t like manly hairy ass. Speaking of asses, how does your ass look like, Kay? Send me some pictures of your ass, if you can.
Colonel,
I forgot to add an item to my list, above, you copy cat fuck.
Emily and entourage making you feel like shit…priceless
Monkey, I have to take a shit, I’m gonna print out your list to wipe off my ass with it. Keep it up.
Monkey, gimme all you got, you little ass licking faggot. I hope you stay up all night and keep working on improving your pathetic comedy act, even though I start to doubt if you’re old enough to browse porn sites, maybe you’re not. Your only relevance is how I beat the shit out of you just for the fuck of it, and the best part is you don’t even know what’s going on, you’re too dumb to catch up. Good night, and good luck.
What’s going on is that few of you porn industry psychos are ganging up on a poor girl and her attempt at some redemption and resolution. And some positivity. I’ll tell Emily about how certain people in her industry can be assholes because they have fear. But may this all serve as a lesson that you people need to help a fellow pornstar when down on her luck. If you guys want to donate to a fund with a co-signing trust account authorizing 2 signatures per check, I will gladly start a non profit organization with monies spent decided by on an individual need basis. Or why not just open a trust account with Shelley’s nonprofit organization to help retired stars in need of counseling, housing, food, etc.
Good morning….Sorry Colonel, I was tired, I’m an east coaster. I miss understood your ass thing. Got it you love it. But only girls’. I was thinking of guys’.
No you can not have a picture of mine. You have not earned it yet! I will tell you though I have a killer porn name, Missy Cambridge!
kayryan Says:
‘No you can not have a picture of mine. You have not earned it yet.’
Kay, thank you for leaving the door open, I’ll do what I must to earn it. I’m a loving guy. About porn name, I like Missy Cambridge, I also have some ideas that are more old school and suggestive: Amber Oral, Chelsea cumalot, and Kelly Creamer.
Gimme all your lovin’.
Coronel, you must be some sort of ladies man. First you started with Ruby and now with Kayryan?
He also started with Shelley (who is trying to do something to help retired pornstars – SOMETHING HE SHOULD BE DOING FROM HIS HIS OWN POCKET).
And he got into it with Emily’s cause at Emily’s block here at luckisback.com.
This guy is a piece of shit rambling mumbling idiot fuck!
Cum on (me) Guys,
So lets say YOU work at K-mart. If someone who works there as a cashier gets arrested for stealing money out of the cash register to support their drug habit that means that YOU should take money out of YOUR pocket to help them pay for their legal services, get cigarettes in jail, and rehabilitate them, right? Because you say if we work in porn then we must help fucked up people in our industry, then you must also help the fucked up ones in yours. Doesn’t make much sense at all when you think about it that way, does it?
The New American Pornstar
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Whether she’s watched from an addict’s screen, or whether she’s watched from a glass cage and telephone, she still wants not to be forgotten, discarded first by her family, then by her industry, then by her industry’s peers, and now on this sorry ass website’s blog. I’m organizing the biggest bitches of retired pissed -ff porn stars your industry has ever seen. I’m already also communicating with Dillan Lauren who I plan to have kick your ass. You guys are in trouble! You bastards have raised an army against you, you idiot fools! And all they want is respect and fairness. I’m looking for solutions, not bitching about “if this” bullshit and “if that” bullshit. This is what you have molded, YOU IN-DENIAL SONS OF SATAN COCK SUCKERS!
That’s funny, Her family can’t find her to communicate with her to make sure she’s all right, but you are talking to Dillan Lauren. You must be mighty important! You are not looking for If this and if that, because it shows you how stupid you are, and how illogical your arguments are. You don’t want logic, or reasoning, you want your way or you will throw a tantrum and call everyone a cocksucker. You win, you are an idiot and a cocksucker, I agree with you, ok?
Look, it’s obvious that this blog is almost entirely terrorist porn industry employees, so debating with you is like aruguing with al kaida.
No I haven’t communicated, but attempting to contact her via the internet is my communicating with her, do-o – oyyyyy.
Now, go bown down and suck the Colonel dick, bitch. I won’t give u the courtesy of biatch, you R A BITCH!
I think I’ll re-read Al’s blog.
“I’m already also communicating with Dillan Lauren who I plan to have kick your ass.”
Please stop the Bullshit. She has not logged to her myspace in weeks. I do have a friend that communicates with her. And the least thing she needs now is to get in more trouble. Do not bring PWs into your internet tought guy act please. Either you are delutional or worse you are outing the PWs that want out and are talking with Sex Work Recovery groups. If the latter is true you are a despicable crazy guy.
ComeOnYouGuys, I have some news for you mother fucker: YOU’RE FIRED, YOU’RE EXPIRED. You had your 15 seconds, we played you around, we rediculed you, we laughed at your pathetic, retarded loser ass, and we grew tired of you, we don’t want you anymore, and we don’t give two fucks about Emily or any other cock sucking porn whore either, because we’re nasty, twisted evil people hell bent on sexual exploitation and destruction of human lives. Crawl back to your hole, go jerk off to Emily and Sasha and whoever the fuck that makes your little dick hard, go bang your mother since you can’t get any other pussy, go kill yourself so you might go to a better place, I don’t want to bitch slap you anymore, I’ll find myself another monkey. Fuck off and get lost, you piece of shit.
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Re: Emily Evermore in the clink
#361753 – 11/14/08 12:20 AM Edit Reply Quote
I think I’m going to go to college to major on a new degree program called, “how to fuck up your life in a month.” or maybe one called, “agravating your situation to the worst extreme 101.”
hmmmmmmmm what school? any schools that you guys know that has that on their agenda? or should i say syllabus, and i ain’t talking saliva, you idiot fucks.
“Look, it’s obvious that this blog is almost entirely terrorist porn industry employees, so debating with you is like aruguing with al kaida.”
Terrorist Porn? Wow, that must be a new category. Wonder if AVN will be giving an award for it?
Cum on Me Guys- You are actually an embarrassment to Emily. I hope she doesn’t find out what an idiot you are by one of her REAL friends telling her or bringing copies of your postings to her. A car wash you say? Maybe we should have a marijuana bake sale, that would make more money.
I notice your Poor Emily, what about Emily, Help Emily, multiposts are gone. Guess I ain’t the only woman around here getting sick of your childishness…..
“Cum on Me Guys- You are actually an embarrassment to Emily.”
I do not think CumOnMeGuys es even a friend of Emily. He is just a fucktard that is using this forum to insult people at random. There is a name for those kinds of fucktards. Trolls.
So ban it.
If he wants to really help Emily it does not shows that in his post. I do not think he even knows her. Please CumOnMeGuys, take your meds.