From: eddie Wow a pornstar writing me back, wow i was just saying a pretty woman like you could do so many things in life and u pick to be a pornstar that is so low of you to lower your standards don’t u want a family, kids, etc… that’s just gross to be in your postion of what u are doing, u know don’t get me wrong i love sex but banging girls that’s been wit so many guys that’s just gross and low. But u a grown ass woman u can do what u want i ain’t stoping you i just ain’t supporting your porn career that’s all i’m saying….
Mika Answers-I actually was a regular model since I was 12 years old. I performed on community theater, worked on television shows, as well as some commercials and voiceover work. I also paid my way through college stripping, figure modeling for art classes, and did non-sex fetish scenes.
I decided to do hardcore porn scenes when my husband at the time got out of the Marines and could only find work as a security guard. So instead of filing bankruptcy, we performed as a couple, which paid our entire rent and then some. We got pregnant and when I was 7 months along, I caught him in bed with a neighborhood high school girl. I had a miscarriage and we divorced.
I do not want another relationship and do scenes from time to time to get laid. The guys I work with are all tested every 2 weeks to a month for sexually-transmitted diseases. I don’t have to worry about them pretending to care about my emotional needs or those awkward gaps of silence over meals. I don’t have to worry about getting along with their parents or making up some excuse to not see them again if the sex wasn’t very good. Can you say this about any of your partners or yourself? When was the last time you got screened for HIV, chlamydia, gonorrhea, syphilis or the whole range of STDs?
My job is to work with other performers to provide entertainment for people who do not get enough of or get the kind of sex they want with their current partner. I want to show couples that sex can be fun and adventurous. You enjoy banging girls, well, so do I…SO DO I. ;-P
Let’s face it, everyone needs sex. Thinking adult performers do so because of lack of options is a common misconception. Some women in this business are actual nymphos. Some are struggling single moms who want a job that allows them to be off work in time to pick up their kid from school.
There are many more girls and guys working their way through college. I can and do pursue other interests and am relatively successful, even in this market. I have 2 college degrees and working on a 3rd. Just because you see us doing this, don’t think this is all that we do. Don’t judge. It just isn’t cool.
Mika Excellent job. Keep it up. Let them all know just because a girl does porn she can still have a brain. I am sorry for your loss. Losing a child is a pain no one should ever have to endure.
Notice how classy, elegant, and intelligent she is, and what a stupid piece of trash he is, AND HE THINKS HE’S TO GOOD FOR HER, WHAT A JOKE! Most uneducated men look down on whores because they can’t really look down on anyone, learn how to spell and speak and maybe a girl will pay attention to you!
Why you do porn? Because you’re a fucking uneducated lazy whore who doesn’t want to get a job and earn her bread, so you suck stranger’s cocks and take whatever is thrown at you like a scumbag. You can beat around the bushes and sugarcoat the truth, but it is what it is, you’re a fucking prostitue and you get paid to get laid.
As surprised as I am to say it, I agree to some extent with Colonel… I think if all the chicks in porn were forced to work for made minimum wage you wouldn’t see too many girls so eager to use jizz like it was Listerine… And to say that the average person does not get tested is absolutely ridiculous… Furthermore the ratio of tests for std’s relative to sexual partners is what is important, not the frequency of the tests… If I bang three chicks a year with protection and get tested once a year, I’m safer to screw at any given time than someone who gets tested every two weeks but has 4 or more different partners in that span and has unprotected and risky sex…
Let’s see how confident she is after a few std’s she can’t shake and one really really bad case of anal warts.. just ask a few veterans how they enjoy their new std + status’
Intelligent, NOT.. she’s deluded and her privelaged high-school upbringing has just allowed her to convince herself with so many seemingly intelligent words that being a borderline prostitute (on film) is just ‘fine and dandy’.
If they all got jobs, they’d all maybe get help for whatever sexual abuse they might have been subjugated to earlier in their lives.. We all know that’s what’s really going-on 90-100% of the time, even if said ‘performer’ does not want to admit it publicly, let alone to themselbes.
That nit wit eddie doesn’t even sound old enough to be writing Mika (mentally he sounds the age Mika first started legit modeling), but regardless I’m sure he’s choked his chicken a few times to Mika’s movies, otherwise why is he going out of his way to find and write to and insult her? I hope he just forgot the ‘h’ in the word ‘with’ when he said ‘wit’. Probably not. Noone who says “grown ass woman?” should be giving anyone advice. What’s wrong with the youth of today? Is saying ‘wit’ cool, like calling someone “fool”? Appropriate to be calling each other ‘fools’, I suppose. I bet he wears his cap sideways, can’t spell or even define the word ‘hypocrite’. Also, if had the opportunity to bang lots of beeyotchies he wouldn’t be turning it down, neither. Hopefully eddie won’t be having kids. They might turn out to be as dumb as him. And when was he ever supporting her career. Does he send her money?
Mika gave him more courtesy and time than he deserved. She should’ve just told thank you very much and go wank.
Okay, I pretty much stay out of the fray here, & The Colonel knows I’m a fan of his hysteric vitriol, which usually contains a goodly amount of uncomfortable truths, but you’re barking up the wrong pussy here, “my friend.” (Not as old as John McCain but I can be just as snarky)
Your generic anti-whore rant — “stupid, lazy” — is so far off the mark when referring to this performer it really kinda makes you look, sorry, truly ignorant. Having known her professionally for six years, having shot her several times, I hereby testify that not only is her IQ and perceptiveness (not to mention educational level achieved) far higher than most of the goons who perform with her, direct her AND jerk-off to her appearances, she is also one of the hardest working porn ‘hos in the business. Besides her ridiculously long filmography, she toils in several behind-the-scenes capacities such as manging locations & producing. Her reputation as a responsible businesswoman is familiar to just about anybody who has worked with her.
And believe me, at this point in my own career I am hardly a “Captain Save-a-ho,” and my head is not turned by the urges of my little head. In fact, the two rarely communicate these days. (Oh, the visscitudes of middle-age)
And disco-rustler — considering your spelling & grammar skills, I don’t think you’re really qualified to pass judgment on anybody who managed to graduate the seventh grade.
hey disco rustler, i have some old l.p.’s i’m looking to get rid of: kc & the sunshine band, the hue corporation, captain & teneille, walter murphy, chic, bee gees and saturday night fever.. make me an offer i can’t refuse
dac, Mika might be smarter than a dozen other porn whores, but all anti-whore rants aside, it pisses me off when I see someone is trying so hard to justify her occupation and act politically correct. She’s a whore, she fucks strangers cocks for cold hard cash, and that’s just that, fine with her, fine with me, but playing vocabulary games to justify the simple act of getting laid to get paid, just pisses me off. Other than that, I have no beef with her and whores in general. I believe they’re wonderful creatures, especially as long as they keep their mouths shut and their legs open.
My dear Colonel,
Having suffered through the solipstic sanctimonious self-aggrandisement of the “sex worker” subculture during my tour of duty up in SF, I hear ya loud & clear over your misgivings.
Perhaps it’s that compared to that sort, I find Mika pretty unpretentious & down to earth. Perhaps it’s that from knowing her in the business, I might unconsciously think of her much more candid real-life persona than what’s fully conveyed in her postings, which can sometimes come off as intelligent but with a touch of that generic “porn star addressing the masses” tone.
As for justifying her own life decisions, I believe that’s something everything single one of us does from time to time, & the temptation can be particularly great when you’re bombarded with idiotic, illiterate insults from the piquantly unwashed masses such as “eddie,” “disco rustler,” et al. I know it comes with the territory when you put yourself out there, but again, we’re all (vaguely, semi-) human.
best to ya,
dac
Sorry about the typos in my posts; the interface on this site tends to lag & so do I at this hour.
Not and whores are stupid but most are lazy, and have a instant gratification mindset. Is funny that when the justifiy doing porn they always end up showing the things, cars, bags, shoes, houses, chihuahuas they were able to by renting their bodies to strangers.
The are the opposite of that Tyler character in Fight Club, they really thing they are what they own.
Like in a Leonard Cohen song, the claim prostitution/porn makes then free even when in private they feel like death and wash away their shame with illegal chemicals.
Not all are like that, Ruby seems a whore that is there for the sex. But most are.
Cheers dac, you’re one of the coolest, most intelligent guys on this board and in the industry.
Much love and respect.
Thanks Dac for backing up what I’ve heard about Mika from some of her non-porn Asian Model colleagues, who also are very astute at their business. Anyway you can convince Kylie Rey to come out of retirement again?