BigDickDaddy posts:
Guys do not want to marry whores. We are more then happy to fuck whores but once the load is blown its time to get back to the wife and family.
Guys dont respect guys who have stripper girlfriends, whore girlfriends or pornstar girlfriends. When I look at guys who have stripper/pornstar girlfriends I think they are weak and have no selfesteem. When I see guys that date or marry women who are lawyers with Havard Law degrees or MBAs from Yale or just even successful without taking their clothes off for money then I think the couple and the guy are on the same social level as me.
Rics posts:
Sadly BigDickDaddy is right, date a whore in a serious relationship and the other men will look down on you. Even dating an exwhore that have made great achivementes in civilan life after her career in the sex industry can create frictions with your friends specially if her deeds are on video.
That is a fact of life, and I do not see changing soon. Go to any exwhores forums and read their discussions on relationships after the industry. I have a close friend, a Ivy League educated lawyer who dated exwhore he met in his Ivy League University. No all whores are dumb, some are just very fucked up women. Their relationship died after he realized that dating a woman, no matter how smart and hard working, who once made a career getting sodomized on film was going to be harmfull to his career and that he would become the joke of his friends.
Sad but true, thats the way things are.
whoa, wait a minute…whores may not make great wives, but THEY ARE FUN to date.
I like how you tagged this piece “family”
“When I see guys that date or marry women who are lawyers with Havard Law degrees or MBAs from Yale or just even successful without taking their clothes off for money then I think the couple and the guy are on the same social level as me. Lawyers are dime a dozen and the profession is over saturated and the majority of them just get by. “Social level?? With a handle like BigDickDaddy what level would that be? I have never read, nor am I interested in any exwhores forums and read their discussions on relationships after the industry. But I am sure there is some serious disfuntion with some, not all but some exwhores. To lump them all into an absolute would be like saying watchers of porn are rapist or potential molestors. Which would be stupid,short sighted and totally untrue.
That’s the whole point to what I was saying. A good example is Halle Berry. When she did the movie Monsters Ball, the sex scenes was REAL! Her then husband went ballistic and they got divorced. Now, I would dare say marrying Halle Berry, an Oscar winner would not be a sore spot on anyones marriage, but to suggest that to have a relationship with a stripper or “performer” is beneath someone, well that’s fine, if that’s for you, but not everyone feels that way. I would suggest to Luke and others to show stats on the divorce rate for performers versus “normal” or those outside this industry. I would be very inclined to think that the divorce rate is much lower in this business than those in a mainstream profession like the medicine field or the legal field. Hell, even the political field is high with divorce, so to suggest that you cannot have a healthy happy marriage in the adult industry is nonsense and I bet cannot be shown.
Just like joe stated im curious as to the social status of BigDickDaddy and although being a lawyer has the ability to make good money most are on the same hate scale as going to the dentist. I personally don’t wish to be on that social level. As for whores not making good wives that all depends on the person and how you treat them. if you look at them as a whore/stripper/porn star that’s all they will ever be so ya you wont get away from the stigma. I personally don’t care enough about what people think about me and my family we make better money than most. the statement made about “We are more then happy to fuck whores but once the load is blown its time to get back to the wife and family.” shows me that he isn’t happy with his wife and family he has to go spend money to get ass that he wants my guess is his Harvard lawyer wife is too prude to do anything other than missionary with the lights off. tons of guys pay my car/house payment because im not a jealous bastard and know my wife wants me being im the only one who doesn’t get charged lol. look at me sideways if you want but its my life not yours and at the end of the day we are happier than most and more honest because of our profession. so to all the guys who jerk off to my wife and pay $1000+ to fuck her (where the hell do they get all that money by the way oh ya they went to Harvard cause they weren’t getting laid they figured they would get the money to pay for it) thanks for all the time off i have to be with my kids and work from home glad to know you would rather pay to fuck my wife than deal with yours. and they say im dysfunctional.
In the non-porn ‘civilian’ world its pretty much social death to marry a known ex-whore. In professions where social networking is a big part of building your career it’s just a bad move. Most americans follow a moral code dictating that sex is a unique currency that only the principals involved trade in.
You throw in an ex-whore in the middle of it all and their whole way of looking at themselves falls to crap. It’s like a run on the bank.
I would bet that if nobody knew she was whore then it could probably work. I would say it’s not the whore but people’s perception of her that causes the most problems.
Thing is there are ten damaged men for every damaged woman out there so it’s not like women have cornered the market on being f*cked up in the head.
I think this is nonsense. If you love a girl then it shouldn’t make any difference. In fact, sexual attraction is part of marital love and you probably married her knowing she used to be a whore because it turns you on. I know I did. My wife was a dancer and did a few movies and I thought she was the hottest thing I had ever seen. I proposed to her the morning after the night I met her. We have been married 10 years and have 2 great kids. She’s still smoldering hot and turns heads wherever we go. I am so proud of her. Most people who know us know her history. And, I do have a master’s degree, and I am CEO of a $12 million company.
I am a whore and an excellent wife. What else needs there to be said?
“I am a whore and an excellent wife. What else needs there to be said?”
What your husband thinks maybe or your family?
I think the biggest problem is that stripper/pornstar kind of girls are in general of the lazy ass/easy money type so…that’s no good for wive’s material.
Of course that depends a lot on the woman and the career of the male suitor.
A distant relative of mine married a former escort, but she willed herself to change her life radically, proving Suzy Bright saying that no one is more prudish than a ex-prostitute. She became a model wife and mother. But her husband was self employed, and socialnetworking was not needed for his business. In some careers marring a ex-whore is social death. About the ex-whore of may previous post: After working outside the US for a while, she returned to the US and dated some college art professor, in a social enviroment were her past would be forgiven, especially since she adopted radical feminist beliefs after leaving the industry. That is when I lost contact.
I myself don’t believe all ‘ex-whores’ are doomed to live damage lonely lives. No more than a mixed race couple’s relationship is doomed if they suddenly moved into a conservative, all-white enclave in rural georgia or South Carolina. My point is their lifestyle would place them out of the norm in a closed social environment where being ‘in the norm’ is a prerequiste to inclusion.
sorry about the poor spelling an puncuation… I gor pre-coffee porner brain right now.
Dang, that was even worse! Must be the whores working their evil mojos on me…
If you meet a woman who you love and who loves you, hold on to her. Of course, like in Romeo and Juliet there are societal obstacles that can eventually destroy a relationship, no matter how strong the bond between the two. The odds are stacked against you with a “whore”, because of society’s disapproval.