Shelley Lubben writes:
My daughter Tiffany had her 19th birthday today and I’d love for you to wish her a Happy Birthday. She’s number one in my top friends.
God has done amazing miracles for Tiffany and I. She had a mother who did porn and was horrible to her but against all odds, God healed our relationship in a beautiful way.
Please wish Tiffany a Happy Birthday and let her know how special she is. She is now an activist against porn and abortion. She really believes if her prostitute Mom kept her as a baby, then anybody can keep their baby.
Shelley Lubben’s 19 year old daughter Tiffany blogs on MySpace:
"I agree with Daisy. Its all natural, and it’s all healthy. And even if kids are watching it, so what. They need to learn somehow. Everyone watches porn, and that’s not going to change. It’s normal." -Myspacer
This breaks my heart. How can people sit there and think it’s okay for children to view porn. Porn is not healthy.
Recently there was news about a 7 yr. old boy who was addicted to pornography. His mother would catch him fondling with his penis while watching porn on tv. He would go to school and draw pictures of naked woman instead of cartoons… Sound healthy to you? The largest age group for viewing pornography is 12-17 years old.
Soon the largest age group will be 3-17 years old if we don’t do something about it now!
I have quite a few friends who view pornography and can honestly say they hate it. They notice the destruction in their lives that porn has caused. They don’t know what sex in God’s eyes really is, they don’t know how to be open and accept love. And when they hurt they go to the one thing that wont reject them… Porn. Porn does hurt our children! I can vouch for that one…
Have having a mother who was involved with pornography you can assume I was exposed to some stuff no one should ever be exposed to. I thought sex was OK and things like that were okay to do. I started having a masturbation problem around the age of 4. I even had a little pornography problem too. I would find magazines, and of course being a little kid you’re curious, so you look through and think "Hey I want to try that". I acted out a lot things I saw. Like I said, I thought it was completely normal!
That myspace comment above really makes me angry because I’m one of those little kids who was exposed to pornography and it was far from being healthy for me. It ruined many years of my life, made me hate myself, I would act out in hurting those around me verbally and physically. I was extremely sensitive and insecure about everything. I wouldn’t get too close to people because I didn’t know how to have an intimate relationship with them. I didn’t know how to open up and show them my heart of stone. I was always afraid of rejection.
Whenever someone did hurt me or reject me, the first thing I’d do was turn to masturbation and pornography. They loved me and accepted me. They made me feel good.
Although masturbation and pornography made me feel good physically, emotionally, and mentally it was also killing me physically, emotionally, and mentally. Also because of my problems they caused even more problems for me. I hated men for the longest time. And for the longest time I could never hug, kiss, or show any kind of affection towards my father. I felt ugly, fat, stupid, and unworthy of anyone and everything. This is one of main reasons why I was suicidal and hated myself so much. Pornography was killing me.
I used to be real angry with God and ask Him why I had to have this problem. I didn’t do anything wrong as a child. It wasn’t my fault!! I know God would never want that for any of His children, but I know now that because of my issues with these things God will use me strongly to fight against pornography.
All things work together for the good of those who love Him! And I love God a lot! 🙂
Will you stand and fight? Someday those viewing porn are going to be ruling our country, performing surgery, teaching your children even…. what will you do? Save the children!!
Satan would love nothing more than to tear down this world with sexual addiction. All men who look at it grow weaker and can not rise up and be the warrior’s God has called them to be. All woman who look feel insecure and ugly and will not rise up to be the warrior’s God has called them to be.
Stand up and fight!!
If you have a problem with pornography or masturbation, do not feel condemned or feel like no one will ever love you. They will. Open up and trust God. Learn your true identity in Christ and His love for you and fight!
This problem will change!
