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Kami Andrews' Broken Heart Over Ivan, Heidi Joy Pike's Ecstatic Reviews For Her Friend Ivan

Kami replies 3/16/06 to Heidi Joy Pike (who Kami accuses of ruining her 18-month relationship with Ivan of IamIvan.com in addition to unethical journalistic practices) on AVN.com:

Ok this is the last thing I'm saying on the matter. I swore that before but you won and I responded, and damn it now I'm doing it again, but after this (and yes I realize there will be a ton of after this) I'm just going to forget it.

I have always been painfully honest. Yes, I had a speed problem. After a year in the biz, I suddenly had a self-image problem about my weight, ya go figure. Some girls can handle a key in the morning, I couldn't and it got away from me. I quit last April.

I'm sure I have doee a ton of things in the last year to call out, but I have never lied about what drugs I do. Too bad we can't all be that honest huh?

Pointing out the painfully obvious doesn't hurt me it just confuses people who don't know the back story.

You said every one you cared about or mattered to you knew the truth, then why are you using AVN to tell people you don't care about?

I'm not going to check the responses. I am the only one in this thing who is using my name.

You ruined a year and a half relationship and your pissed because I hurt your feelings. I'm not going to sit here and call out you did this you did this because I said before you ever posted this that I was done with this, and dang it I am this time. I have a life outside porn and while that may seem weird people wanting to destroy it seems weird to me.

I wish I could live in a fantasy internet world behind an anonymous name but that's not who I am. I do what I do. I'm honest about it and I deal with the consequences, and most importantly I try not involve innocent people. The fact that this is our industry magazine speaks for itself.

Ivan at IamIvan.com responds:

Friendships are give and take. But sometimes it becomes as someone is truly taking advantage of it whether it's on purpose or not or just out of desperation.

Kami's friendship was taken for granted and abused. She has always been honest and up front. With her you get what you get without other agendas. About the messing around business. Nothing ever happened except two friends hanging out.

But that wasn't even the main issue. It was a culmination of many things. A year and a half relationship was severely damaged over this mess. And a person I love and care for more then anything got hurt.

People need to let cooler heads control their emotions and leave all this alone. I am sorry for this mess, hopefully this will be the last we all have to deal with this.

On his website IamIvan.com, Ivan (who once advertised with Lukeisback.com) prominently displays his positive reviews from AVN. Guess who wrote those AVN reviews? Ivan's friend Heidi Joy Pike, the one Kami's mad at for taking her man.

On his page for Dawn of the Dead, Ivan publishes: "AVN Magazine (February 2006) "Spotlight Pick" Pre-noms. Best Sex Comedy, Video Best Packaging Best Oral Scene (Genesis Skye)".

Heidi Joy Pike reviews Dawn of the Dead for AVN.com:

In this latest brilliant creation from horror porn maestro Ivan, Gia Paloma, Alias and Chris Justice play leaders of the ZIPS Patrol, and they protect the residents of Chatsworth from evil, lusty drug-addled zombie chicks, who can only be quelled with that ultimate healing elixir - semen.

This is funny, funny stuff, and the sex is hard and good. Zombie Genesis Skye does an inspired, appropriately psycho-feeling blowbang. Paloma gets violated and turned into a zombie by dyke zombie Tiffany Holiday and then fucked by fellow officer Justice.

Pre-nom for Best Comedy, Best Packaging and the Skye blowbang for Best Oral Scene - Video.

Retailing: Place next to Ivan's Texas Asshole Massacre and watch 'em fly out the door.

On his page for Texas Asshole Massacre, Ivan publishes: "AVN AWARD Nominated: Best Sex Comedy Best Actress Video, Kami Andrews Best Supporting Actor Video, Dirty Harry AVN Magazine (July) "July Editor's Choice" "Clever Title of the Month".

Heidi Joy Pike reviews Ivan's Texas' Asshole Massacre for AVN:

Review: This super-cute comedy parodies the Tobe Hooper-directed horror classic The Texas Chainsaw Massacre, giving it a porno twist. Here, Kami Andrews stars in her first feature as Texas, a crazy matriarch of a crazy family, who, via infomercial, lures porn stars to her ranch so she can make them into chili. It's rare that a movie with fucking this hard is this funny, and director Ivan shows great skill. It's a fun commentary on the whole mainstreaming of porn phenomenon with the victims/porn starlets being told that they can just say no to extracurricular sex and become more than the anal whores that they are. "I will make you something better, by any means necessary!" Andrews emotes.

Heh.

It's an Evolution vid, so there's a damn lot of anal, and it's all pretty good with the highlights being Kelly Wells anal bout with Sascha and a hilarious threeway with "five time best anal scene nominee" Gia Paloma, begging for cock in her ass, and Andrews and Sascha not allowing it.

Pre-nom for Best Comedy, Kami Andrews for Best Actress - Video and Dirty Harry for Best Supporting Actor - Video, the Wells/Sascha for Best Anal Sex Scene - Video and the Andrews/Gia Paloma/Sascha scene for Best Threeway.

As Heidi says on the AVN blog: "Yeah, he makes movies and I have reviewed a couple of them. Whatever. Not a big deal in the cosmic sense and me hanging out with people who produce porn isn't me abusing anything."

I wonder where the idea came from to make Heidi the heart-on trophy girl for the XRCO Awards? Did she lobby for it? Why?

Ivan states clearly that he did not have sex with that woman Heidi Joy Pike, which I believe puts an end to this discussion. Now we can all get back to the important business of running the country. Good night and good luck.

Ivan at IamIvan.com emails me:

Hey Luke, just saw your article and it's an interesting story. Just wanted to clear a few things up and give you actual facts if you are interested. E-mail with any questions.

BTW, the person Kami was talking about in this quote "The fact that you go away with and date people whose movies you review shows how you use your position." is not me, you can ask her yourself.

I have shot numerous movies with Heidi reviewing one (Dawn of the Head) after we became friends and only two in total. If you think that the review wasn't warranted compare it to others on the net to see if it was a bias piece.

I would never do anything to harm Kami as in my eyes she an amazing woman; smart, intelligent, and creative. She is exactly what I am looking for in a life long commitment. I love her and care for here and would do anything for her.

...Kami said "go away with" like leave town. That was not about me.

Ivan blogs Feb 28: "This past weekend I hurt Kami. It was a great Saturday turned upside down and from that point on has been an emotional roller-coaster. Some people try to blame her but it's not her fault. She was caught off guard reading in this public journal that I had dinner and a movie with a friend [Heidi Joy Pike?]. I wasn't the one to share this information, she read it here in livejournal. I didn't hide it but that wasn't the point. The point was Kami and I share a bond of certain things meant only for us. I disrespected that. And she responded as any person who's emotions just have been ripped apart. She is not to blame for this and reacted in a way many would."

I Am Ivan.com

Growing up in the Soviet Union during the Cold War, Ivan and his family made a journey to the United States at his ripe ol' age of eight. His High School years were spent in many art classes honing artistic skills and winning Art Scholarship Awards.

After being accepted to Otis Parson's Design School, Ivan chose to take another path spending the next few years collecting a Commercial Art Diploma and Film Theory and History knowledge. It was time to move on as he was accepted and attended a historic Photography/Film Institute. While attending the school, Ivan amassed much experience working on almost 60 projects from student to hollywood features, along the way winning the Eastman Kodak Scholarship...

In August of 2003 Ivan was approached by Kevin K. and Tom Byron of Evolution Erotica about joining their team.

Ivan's MySpace page.

Kami Andrews Won't Quit

She emails me 3/17/06:

When all this happened I really lashed out, at Ivan and at Heidi and all of AVN, playing the part of the tragic victim who had been wronged by every one. And you know what I still feel like I was, but that's not really who I am.

Ivan is the one that got hurt most. He has not only lost his relationship with me but his relationship with AVN. He really is an amazing director, in fact he is a genius, I really believe that. His movies are super awesome and deserving of all the praise they get even when it's spoken with a forked tongue. I think her reviews are tainted across the board but I think people already know what reviews to actually read and who to avoid. If it were a real magazine with real journalists they would probably say if you have a personal relationship with some one you ought to let another staffer review their stuff. I'm not saying she can't be friends with porn people but how can she honestly be impartial?

I told Ivan when they first started being friends to ask her not to review his or my movies. The thing I was referring to was her going away last weekend to Vegas with another male director (who also has a girlfriend). How can you share a room with a man for a weekend away then have your ringing endorsement on the box. The thing is I think that dude is a great director also. I don't think he needs her endorsement.

At the end of the day AVN is just a magazine we all read so we can see our own pictures and see our names. It's a world we have created to validate ourselves and glamorize what we do. It must be OK look at the weight of this paper! And Glossy! I'm totally confortable with porn. It has been very good to me, but I can also step back and see it for what it is. Ivan got stuck between a jealous unbalanced (on a good day) girlfriend and a needy editor who feels like she has something to prove, he never had a chance.